You Go Girl!

Keep helping people who have lost limbs,
perhaps Paul will also continue to give in this area.

Also, maybe Paul should have full custody of your daughter, it would free you to live in America (it seems you would feel safer in the US), not make you feel suicidal and all you to continue with your charity work worldwide. 

No, nothing takes place than a child with their mother however with New Technology, you can hang out with your daughter in her bedroom without even being on the same continent!