Dear Faraha I can only imagine what u r going through I lost my sister to  IPC inflamatory presistant cancer or the breast in 2001 she was only 47 yrs 2 yrs later my aunt kitty and 1 yr later my aunt rebecca and then my mother to heart failure may of 2008 my farther has alzhiemers and is in bad shape but I took on the job of taking care of him @ home I feel I owe it to him after all he took care of me and my sisters all those years.. I do have a surviving sister however she stays in another town 45 minutes away and only comes around when she needs money I recently graduated collage at 34 yrs for medical assisting my husband left me because he said he could'nt take the stress some people just do'nt know about stress I go on everyday praying I never get cancer but the chances do'nt look real promising when most of your family is dieing from it I hope and Pray the best for you and your family but u r a though cookie I hope the poparatize leave u the heck alone they r truly a sick bunch of dogs..