Melanie Brown is reportedly insisting that her baby with Eddie Murphy was "completely planned" which has made it more painful for her to accept subsequent Eddie's behavior.  She told Essence magazine:

   

"This was a completely planned pregnancy. This wasn't some random, 'Oops I fell over and I'm pregnant.' I don't live my life like that.  I'm a responsible parent and have been a responsible single parent since I got divorced [in 1999].   As soon as I had my IUD removed we proceeded to get pregnant. It happened quicker than we expected but it was perfect timing."



It was only around the time that Mel was approximately five months pregnant when Eddie questioned the paternity of the child and then announced the end of their relationship during a TV interview.

Mel added:

"I just didn't believe it. When I saw it my heart dropped down to my gut.  I laughed because that wasn't the guy that I knew who told me he wanted to have a baby and get married."



In the end, Mel was a little relieved things didn't work out though and said: 

"There were certain things that went on in his house with his lifestyle that I wasn't prepared to be a part of.  I have a baby with this guy so I have to be somewhat respectful. I'll simply say that there were lifestyle changes that he would have to make if we were going to live together and do it properly.  I have a house where it's about my kids and me. I don't have people knocking on my door at 3 and 4 in the morning."



However, as awful as his behavior has been, she'd like Eddie to take a more active role in raising their daughter:



"Every child deserves to know that they have a mum and a dad, otherwise there's something missing psychologically. I'm not about to put my daughter through that.  He is [involved] with all his other kids and he's a great dad. Why should this beautiful baby be any different?"

Eddie should be thankful that Mel B is being so mature about the whole thing.  Their baby is so adorable too!  What a jerk he is.  I wonder if he's going through a mid-life crisis!

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